From D Grant Smith
Hello my friend,
Have you experienced personal loss and pain?
Maybe you lost a job you'd worked at for years and sacrificed countless hours and energy to. Suddenly it's over and you feel like all that work was for nothing.
Maybe you were in a long-term relationship or marriage that suddenly ended. All the Love you gave suddenly doesn't mean anything. Your whole world has been upended and you feel completely worthless.
Or perhaps you lost a close friend or family member and that loss has crippled you. You don't know how you're going to move on.
I completely understand. I've experienced all of these situations. The worst for me was the end of a twelve year marriage that came (seemingly) out of nowhere. I felt devastated and completely hopeless.
My worst fears suddenly were starring me in the face. Rejection and abandonment were what I'd run from most of my life. I thought I'd overcome them. But here I was starring at a proverbial Ivan Drago (the villain from the film Rocky 4) and he was throwing cataclysmic haymaker punches at my soul.
In the pits of my personal hell, I was inspired by some unconventional training and experiences from a few years earlier (in boxing of all places) that helped me pick myself up out of the pits of pain to get back on solid ground and reshape my whole life.
If my story relates to you, there's hope. Because I went through hell and came out changed. Healing and wholeness aren't buzzwords, they're a reality you can have too.
The biggest truth that got me through my pain was the discovery that throughout my life I had given and given and given. To jobs and my career, to relationships, and to one person I thought was going to complete me.
In all that giving to other's, I was dependent on someone or something else to feel worthy.
The truth is, I didn't know how to Love myself. And this was the cause of all my pain.
The journey from personal brokenness into wholeness is what my book Be Solid: How To Go Through Hell & Come Out Whole is all about.
Here, I have the digital version of the book for you plus the full training program to completely change your life, build true confidence, reshape your self-concept (your beliefs about who you are), and grow in self-Love.